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Very true. I seem to have some misunderstandings in my life and I really tired of people not talking it out, to try to work it out like adults, they are just done with you. They focus on their side, write you off and ignore you with out even trying to see what they could have done. Tired of always being the one to try to do so. Silly to have distance because of a misunderstanding never bothering to work it out. Guess those people weren't meant to be.
Twain . I realize now, that people who do not like to read, usually, are people who have a hard time reading, or have an attention deficit disorder. Something that should have been dealt with when the child was young...perhaps a brain-eye disconnect. Don't always blame the child, please. It isn't their fault.
Forget all the psycho-babel-bullcrap; deep down your heart's love for someone is real. But Never again will I ever allow others to have me think I am somehow codependent. Mourn it, let it go, move on, and be wiser for the next journey...never ever be confused again....