If I cut you off chances are you handed me the scissors.so true! I try to be forgiving and patient but there are times when you have to let go! If the person does not want your help and their relationship is toxic, then it is time to cut the ties.
"Sometimes you just have to turn around, give little smile, throw the match, and burn that bridge." I've adopted this a long time ago and it changes you for the better. Those bridges were going to crumble any way, might as well give them a hand.