"The Best revenge is just moving on and getting over it. Don't give someone the satisfaction of watching you suffer." -- so true, although those that watched me suffer when I needed help and did nothing but bail I hope you get yours!
A strong women is one who feels deeply and loves fiercely. Her tears flow just as abundantly as her laugher. A strong woman is both soft and powerful, she is both practical and spiritual. A strong women in her essence is a gift to the word.
Never depend on someone else to make you happy. Only God can make you happy! Create yourself a full, happy life, seeking God and finding hobbies and ways to express your gifts, and your man will be included in your happiness, a gift from God.