People who say real women have curves, have double standards. Because they would not like a thin person to be like "real women are not fat" So Nor do thin people want to hear "real women have curves". It's pathetic.
people used to stop me all the time when my babies were little and say in a tone that meant they felt sorry for me, "wow - you've got your hands full". I would always just smile back at them and say "no. My hands are busy. My heart is full.