The trick is to just keep working at it and expect seasons that aren't great. Marriage, like two rowboats meant to be together, will slowly and subtly drift apart unless you are well anchored. Tying your boats together with the bonds of commitment, togetherness, and well planned love will also help to drift proof your marriage. We try to read books on romance,marriage ,go to marriage retreats when we can. We aren't taught in our culture how to be married and it's a shame.
Ahhhh my love, this is so true!! You have helped me in more ways than I can say to help me look inwardly and outwardly to change and transform so much of myself to become a better man for YOU!!! Thank you my dear sweetheart!! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!