YES YOU CAN IN JESUS: "I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit in you. I will take out your stony, stubborn heart and give you a tender, responsive heart," Ezekiel 36:26. "ABOVE ALL THE GRACE... Christ gives to His beloved is THAT OF OVERCOMING SELF." ~ Francis of Assisi
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch trade winds in your sails.