Good Words! Lesson I learned a friendship should be equal if they can't make time for you and it is always you initiating a get together then it obviously is not worth it. I like my friends to be real.
I understand this quote more this year than any before it. It's sad when someone loses that title to you, but then you remember that relationships can't be or feel one sided, and that you can't force something that probably began ending a long time ago.
This right here is why I won't even make an effort to make friends anymore. Yeah, I have no friends. Yeah, it sucks. I wish I did. But im not going to put a buncha effort into a friendship and get my hopes up to have them just walk away like everyone else in my life. It's not worth it. Not when I'm the only one who ever makes an effort. So ill just remain lonely and friendless.
Tell me about it...never been more true than right now! You never know how much you need a support system until you lose your sissy; your best friend in the world; the one whose been your support for 24 years. :(
Maturity is knowing what battles to walk away from. No "win" is worth lowering yourself or sacrificing your dignity & class. Narcissists will push your buttons & try to get you to react. There will be times when you feel you will lose it & sacrifice your dignity/class. Don't they are not worth it!