This is true. I'm friends with many different 'types' of people, be it loud, quiet, sarcastic, quirky, thoughtful, clever etc, but that doesn't mean everyone. Only some from this category, some from that category. I never get along with everyone in the one category, if you get what I mean. Basically, I'm a chameleon who changes depending on who I'm hanging out with.
For a seed to achieve its greatest expression, it must come complete undone. The shell cracks, its insides come out and everything changes. To someone who doesn’t understand growth, it would look like complete destruction.