I really believe that if you want to create something wonderful in your life, if you truly want to make a big change, you’ve got to learn to tolerate the “in-between” time. That’s the period in which we let go of who we know ourselves to be in order to allow for the possibility of who we might become.” – Katherine Woodward Thomas Accepted Uncertainty, Quiet Footsteps, Mr. Big, Woodward Thomas, Katherine Woodward, Big Change
Don't ever give up. It's never too late to be what you've dreamed of being. Find it, and change your mind, and change it again, and soon you'll have done so much that you'll know exactly who you want to be and what you want to do. And don't give up when you pick up the pieces you left for yourself as a reminder. Take the pieces, take your dreams, and do it. It's never too late.
Yeap. What it comes down to is your actions in the end. As the saying goes actions speak louder than words. We can make careful plans if needed to to end relationships we do not wish to stay in. Start making plans for the life you want to have after that person is no longer a part of your life. This will make you stronger. Feel the fear, but do it anyway--carefully and with the help of others. If you give up, nothing will change.