Unacknowledged hurt and pain can be a cause of C/PTSD. This can manifest itself as rage, or inverted rage (aka depression). #PTSD #CPTSD (The real problem begins when something sneaks up on me. Like rage or hurt. When I do feel it is BIG. Anger is just rage, sadness is a life is completely over feeling, happiness is euphoric. No gray shades, its all black and white.
So trust me when I say if a guy is treating you like he doesn't give a shit, he genuinely doesn't give a shit. No exceptions. It's insane how many of us women let this happen. Right when it happens, tell them. If they still act up, take your time setting up an escape plan. Keep your mouth shut and set your goals for a better life. Don't look back and never ask for anything.