What screws us up most in life is the picture in our head of how it's supposed to be. For more quotes and inspirations: http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/what-screws-most-life-the-picture.html?ref=ppt10
Ladies...you need to have your own before you can share them. No one can predict the future, don't ever let yourself be reliant on a man for a "life". Wait for the man that will compliment your life not complicate it.