Motherhood is about raising and celebrating the child you have, not the child you thought you'd have. It's about understanding he is exactly the person he's supposed to be. And, if you're lucky, he might be the teacher who turns you into the person you're supposed to be.
I've learned to say oh well and have learned to not care what they think or say or even if they talk to me or not. If they are meant to be in my life, they will be. If someone doesn't like the way I live, that is their problem. I love me, my life and the true people in it. If I'm happy, then that's what matters.
Exactly!! So many people need to learn to walk their own path, live their own life, and stop competing with everyone around them...no one cares to compete so live your own life and invest your time working on yourself!