Also on these boards
yeah, last year my friend Marie, (6th grade) NEVER spoke seriously i heard her speak like 12 times the whole year! now this year (7th) she speaks at least once or twice at lunch! maybe next year (8th) she'll be talking more! (no one can talk more than me!)
My philosophy -since the selfishness people are capable of can be overwhelming stick to this and you'll never be at their level...