Agree Never. Quite possibly, this is the cruelest thing that you could do to someone. Particularly when you don't understand it or only know part of the truth (at best), anyway. Let people live; let people learn.
Blessed are the curious for they shall have adventure. Sometimes a good adventure is all it takes." Stand by me" is one of my favorite movies. A great Stephen King film about the spirit of adventure and boyhood.
I hope that to live my life with no regrets, and even if things don't always go as planned, I can appreciate the good from everything. I also never want to look back on life and say what if? Or I wish I had.