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Exactly. Because they dont mean anything by it. So let it go. Stop asking your girlfriends what it means...they dont know!!! No matter how knowledgable your friends seem, they arent guys. Stop driving yourself crazy and driving men away with this silliness. Just enjoy yourself and that will make you attractive.
Yes, some people really do suck. Why invite them into YOUR precious life? God gives us a finite number of days above ground. Why pollute a single second/minute/hour/day/year with a sucky person? If they were the tray that raw chicken comes in, how long could you stand to leave it in your kitchen trash? Time to kick those stinky peeps to the curb trash can for pick up, baby!