In our house. only hugs, smiles and warm fuzzy feelings are allowed. (remember that little book - all I ever needed to know I learned in Kindergarten =- yeah that is what my baby is learning now -warm fuzzy vs cold prickly).
When sending their kids out the door in the morning, some moms will say, "Don't forget your lunch! Be good! Make good friends! Learn something new! Remember who you are!" When sending them into the world moms say this "Don't forget to be awesome!