This is so true! Some people shouldnt be parents either cause they use there children and there so damn immature its not even funny. Its funny how those people could use "your family" for money and things when they needed it. Thats ok one day they will need others and there wont be no one there for them. I feel bad there kids have to suffer with parents like them!
Children do not care about child support, who was married to whom, or why you don't like each other. They are children, they care that their parents show-up, that when there is a Christmas recital, and they peek through the curtains – all of the people they love are there – without fighting, for the best interest of the child.
parenting is about sacrificially loving your child.. doing whats best for YOUR CHILD no matter what i costs you personally. Which also means if you dont have the means to take care of your child, which you never have had, then let the other parent take care of the child!