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Once you realize that the outcome of most of the things you worry about don't change your life one way or the other, you can let go. Funny, it is usually other people's drama that "worries" me. My life is relatively drama free. Im learning to let go.
“It's not what's happening to you now or what has happened in your past that determines who you become. Rather, it's your decisions about what to focus on, what things mean to you, and what you're going to do about them that will determine your ultimate destiny.” Anthony Robbins
Give yourself permission to immediately walk away from anything that gives you bad vibes. There is no need to explain or make sense of it. Just trust what you feel.