Life isn't a popularity contest - unless you haven't matured past high school. Collect people: but only those that add worth, meaning and sunshine to your life. Let go of the soul suckers who steal your light and the positive energy that you have to give. They have no value to you. Easier said than done but the mature ones know it's worth it.
when we make a change, it's so easy to interpret our unsettledness as unhappiness, and our unhappiness as a result of having made the wrong decision. our mental and emotional states fluctuate madly when we make big changes in our lives, and somedays we could tight-rope across manhattan, and other days we are too weary to clean our teeth, this is normal. this is natural. this is change. - jeanette winterson
Find the time to read, to smell the flowers, to paint your dreams, to have xoffee with a friend, to learn a new craft, to write a letter, to take a surprise cake, to go somewhere special, to really be with the person you love, or even to do nothing for a while...
its starts from you, so believe what I know... you are amazing! After all I know you best and I see what you may not, so until you see it too, let me give you the words of encouragement you need, the hand to hold, and the shoulder to lean on! I love you both!