If more people would worry less about what others might say, think or feel about a choice/decision that one might make, regarding ones own life and happiness then the world would be a much brighter place with TONS more happy people in it!!!!
My bestest friend & my motto about people. If you choose to ignore what someone is saying & doing that is showing you how they feel about you, likely very clearly, that's your prerogative; however, you don't get to be mad at them later when YOU finally realize they've meant what they've been saying/doing all along. Be smarter & have more self respect than that!