Decide this minute to never again beg anyone for the love respect & attention. Never ask, never give the Narcissi's/Psychopath the benefit of the doubt. Shame on us if we do. Love and respect yourself.
An old Cherokee told his grandson, "My son, there is a battle between two wolves inside us all. One is Evil. It is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, inferiority, lies, and ego. The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindness, empathy, and truth." The boy thought about it and asked, "Grandfather, which wolf wins?" The old man quietly replied, "The one you feed."
15 Katharine Hepburn Quotes Every Woman Should Live By
We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers - but never blame yourself. It's never your fault. But it's always your fault, because if you wanted to change, you're the one who has got to change