Eeeexactly!!!....people are incapable of ever seeing your heart, only God can, therefore why even try to win their approval? live to please God...because in pleasing God, you love people anyway, you just don't live to please their expectations.
So true. God is great! Never thought I could survive my newborn son being admitted to the hospital for failure to thrive among many other problems, and my hubby's job loss and unemployment for nearly 7 months. Rough, hard times, but God got us through it!