the only way to succeed is to not worry about what anyone else is doing. free your mind, live your life for yourself, get rid of everyone's expectations what you should or should not do.let go and live for yourself and your own goals.
therefore, don't have a job you hate. or you ARE HATE! haha okay maybe not, but if your job makes you miserable (like my second job does) GET A DIFFERENT JOB. or just quit the one you have. I think I will just have one job. the fun job.