I never thought of it like that. But, it's true.... if they don't make a decision, then that means they're on the fence about it. I want to be somebody's "I-want-you-&-only-you" 1st choice. Not a pity-party, "I-guess-u'll-do" 2nd choice.
Nothing can stand against our God. Whatever you face in life, if you will just hold your peace and remain at rest, God promises He will fight your battles. He will make a way even when you don't see a way.