"You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the one who'll decide where to go." - Dr. Seuss this quote is on point
Sounds like "Do You Believe in Love?" by NewWorldSon. Not the exact words but same idea. "Some wanna change your mind and tell you loves a breeze. Lovely breeze, it's a hounding wind. Could knock a man to his knees!" Love that song.