Can't find the source easily. "I myself am entirely made of flaws, stitched together with good intentions." Augusten Burroughs “I myself am made entirely of flaws, stitched together with good intentions.
I'm only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand. Although as an author I am responsible for making readers understand--a reader who doesn't understand is an unhappy reader. (And there is some value to leaving some questions unanswered.