It can be very easy to spend way too much time gathering ideas, and then striving to make that "perfect" dinner. It is the classic Mary and Martha syndrome. Yet, very quickly the entertaining becomes about "us." In reality, hospitality is about our guests. We can be focused on the perfect decor, or we can be focused on how we make our guests feel in our home. One focuses on God and the other on ourselves.
I refuse to entertain myself with sin. Psalm 101:3 ---Why do Christians watch on TV (or pay to go to the movies and see) the very sins that sent Jesus to the cross? As we become more and more Christlike, we should be more and more saddened and pained when we see sin. Sadly, many professing Christians are desensitized to the sin they set before their eyes.