The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, know suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do no just happen. Elizabeth Kubler Ross.
How true. I find sometimes when you do something nice for someone they become almost obsessed with repaying you for your kindness. I would sometimes rather they express gratiude, then "repay" my kindness by forwarding it to someone else.