I hand-painted this quote on my backpack while I was in Europe 15 years ago- still one of my favorite quotes.
when we make a change, it's so easy to interpret our unsettledness as unhappiness, and our unhappiness as a result of having made the wrong decision. our mental and emotional states fluctuate madly when we make big changes in our lives, and somedays we could tight-rope across manhattan, and other days we are too weary to clean our teeth, this is normal. this is natural. this is change. - jeanette winterson
Somehow people always want to blame God for the bad things that happen in life, you know that old arguement "If God is so great and loving why did my house get broke into and we became poor?" to which i reply "Its not Gods fault your dad is a drug dealer and he sold someone a bad batch who them followed him home and ransacked his house."
People seriously need to fucking learn this. Tired of seeing fake couples that use each other for whatever reason: money, security.. whatever! STOP using people and being so desperate to have a partner. When its meant to happen, it'll happen.. Quit wasting someone elses time in finding their real partner and taking them for granted. I CANT.