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"We go back a long time. You are beautiful. Now I think you should leave me be. You are not nice anymore. The dysfunction and emotional illness of your marriage has made you into someone who can not be a friend. I'm sorry to lose you, and I'll be better off without you."
its starts from you, so believe what I know... you are amazing! After all I know you best and I see what you may not, so until you see it too, let me give you the words of encouragement you need, the hand to hold, and the shoulder to lean on! I love you both!