The purpose of your time on earth is not primarily about acquiring possessions, attaining status, achieving success, or even experiencing happiness. Those are secondary issues. Life is all about love with God & with other people. You may succeed in many areas, but if you fail to learn how to love God & love others, you’ll have missed the reason why God created you.
Jesus didn't ask God for to give him an easier task. He willingly accepted God's plan for him. He knew that God would give him the strength and courage to make it through. God never abandoned Jesus and he will never abandon us,