I have come to believe that caring for myself is not self-indulgent. Caring for myself is an act of survival. I have to just stick up for myself and say I have to go next time rather then just saying I have a really bad migraine...lol.
Remember to take care of yourself! Rest, recover, relax! Live for you, & Do what makes you happy, but pace yourself, and remember to try not to overdo it too much...Be happy, stay positive & keep fighting! You're awesome!