When all you're good at is talking about other people, it's probably time to reevaluate your life. We just do the right things, take care of our kids, work/study/volunteer and continue to be real people. Wish others would do the same!
Disorders are extreme, constant abnormalities. Don't say "Im so OCD about this one thing; Im so depressed right now; I am so ADHD when i dont get enough sleep." Mental disorders should not be thrown around.