Jane Austen lived at home for the majority of her life. She never married and was mostly educated through the books she read. Austen's witty satire flourished when she made funny short plays for her own family. That is how she got her start as a writer.
Anyday... Remember that someone has problems too. They could've just been broken up with.. their family member could've passed.. they could've just gotten a ticket. How are you to know unless truly knowing that person? don't judge unless you know the full