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its starts from you, so believe what I know... you are amazing! After all I know you best and I see what you may not, so until you see it too, let me give you the words of encouragement you need, the hand to hold, and the shoulder to lean on! I love you both!
do everything for you never for another person no matter how much they say..i will help etc..you know you better than anyone you dont need help or hand holders..support is helpful but if its needed for you to do what you need then you need to re-evaluate you..