LOVE THIS ~~ Positive reinforcement ~~ Put a cotton ball, marble, pom-pom, etc. in every time you catch your child being good. Do something special when it's full. This is exactly what I need instead of focusing on the bad.
Behavior Chart & Jars:::: Each child has their own jar to receive pompoms for good behavior. The child set goals for something they really want, and then when their jars are full, they earn their prizes.