EXACTLY, one of my biggest arguments for why feminism has to include men as much as women. Give Them A Voice is an advocacy foundation, dedicated to raising awarness of the impact and long term effect of sexual abuse on boys as they grow into men.
For many, staying in "the fight" is a way of holding onto a past that is quickly fleeting. While they are "fighting" it is still not over. Once the flight is cleared, all can face and clear the pain. Many are afraid of this step.