1st birthday outfit! The Funky Monkey Tutu Set Includes tutu, shirt and headband with flower clip or bow-Great for Birthdays. $35.95, via Etsy.
For the smash-cake, I got two different types of cupcakes - one with gold sprinkles and one with pink; I also got gold and pink balloons... to see which will look best. I have a small glass cupcake stand. She'll only be wearing white bloomers and maybe a hat or headband.
Yearly photos w/ interests noted. Make up a few pages in photoshop or an editing program of choice, and create a printed 8x10 book. Give to your children when they graduate as a gift...I would use a few head shots and definitely lifestyle candid shots to get the real feel of what they were like at each age.