You know what? Before you give up, literally take ONE second and ask yourself "hey, maybe it's me?". If you pick a bad boy asshole, guess what? He's an asshole!! If he cheats on you or treats you bad? He's an asshole! You're the one who chose him. Be a strong, motivated, intelligent adult female, and make better decisions. Take responsibility for your actions. But on the other hand, if you can't handle all of that, then, yeah, give up. You'd be doing everyone a favor.