..."and then, in a blur, a maelstrom of emotion and heightened sensation everything whirled around her — colors, sounds, smells, and tastes. so much in an instant of the heart that would take her mind years to unravel."
Rory DOES lose everything. By tying herself to Blaze, she loses her parents, her home, status, protection, financial and physical security....everything gone, for him. But that means nothing to him once he discovers her betrayal. As far as he's concerned, she's just as bad as Finn.