” And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28, NIV). God has a plan to take every adversity and every hardship you go through and use it. He’s not going to beat you down and make your life miserable. No, God’s dream is to take that difficulty and supernaturally turn it around and use it to bring you good.
I have someone who does this to me. I've just about had enough. Just because a person doesn't win a debate doesn't mean that they are wrong. It often means the other person is just more skilled in debate. And usually very arrogant, thinking its just a game. What a way to live.