just in case this is being read by the right person... I have never trusted someone so much in my life. nothing you nor anyone else can do or say will change it. keep telling yourself it ended because of me, but I know different... and that really is all that matters at the end of the day.
For those of you on the planet that assume everyone who is codependent is also either a drug addict &/or alcoholic please become aware that some people who are NOT dealing with those life issues are simply hurting & relating to others to the best of their current abilities. But with self-awareness, change & growth they can become interdependent with others around them and less codependent.