Isn't it amazing that the people who claim to love you and have your best interest at heart are also the ones who have the power to crush you ?
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The power of words
I can relate to this
Nothing shreds your insides apart more than belittling comments and false accusations from your mother. Except maybe when she abandons you because she can't face the truth of her behaviour. That hurts too.
Even the most picture-perfect families have unseen cracks. Get Iyanla Vanzant's thoughts on how to cope if your family is facing a breakdown.
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Family is supposed to be our safe haven. Very often, it's the place where we find the deepest heartache. Iyanla Vanzant: 5 Thoughts to Remember During a Family Breakdown - @Helen Palmer George #FixMyLife
My family.. hurt me the worst >.<
Yep... Sadly that's so true! :( Van Marie ~ Iyanla Vanzant: 5 Thoughts to Remember During a Family Breakdown - @Helen George #FixMyLife Sad but true. The ones we love hurt us the most.
SO TRUE! LIFE LESSON LEARNED
Iyanla Vanzant: 5 Thoughts to Remember During a Family Breakdown - boy ain't this the friggin truth
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Know what you're worth and know no fear. #ConfidenceIsBeautiful
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Omg, I love this!! I'd rather be alone than be with someone who doesn't want to be there or isn't adding to my life in a positive way. And I've never been afraid to eat alone ;-P
Rev Alex Shaw Google+ inspires u: I KNOW WHAT I BRING TO THE TABLE... SO TRUST ME WHEN I SAY I'M NOT AFRAID TO EAT ALONE. .... DO YOU KNOW WHAT U BRING TO THE TABLE?? VALUE YOURSELF...
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Sorry, but no one deserves to be disrespected by someone they once trusted, It's malicious and spiteful, and only a sociopath who pretends to be a victim would do something like that. Personally, I don't have the time for a sorry excuse for a friend like that.
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-Thought Provoking - Some people create their own storms... (and I can't hand her an umbrella without her hitting me with it.)
Some people create their own storms then get upset when it rains. #inspiration #motivation #success
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Some people create their own storms. Isn't that the truth!
So true!!!! Some people create their own storms... (and I can't hand her an umbrella without her hitting me with it.)
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Be nice to each other. ACxx
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You never realize how much words can hurt until they are directed at you. Be kind
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Healing words #quote
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Because she is Mother of Dragons!! So far my favorite character in show and books. Game of Thrones Rocks!!
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Soooo True of my life!!!
And how that fire burns, still...
Mother of Dragons speaks the truth.
Game of Thrones - I survived because the fire inside me burned brighter than the fire around me.
Life can be hard and my boyfriend knows I have crappy days. But overall, it is safe to say that I'm loving life. :)
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Everything is awesome!
Just sitting here on the corner or awesome and bomb diggity
"Like wildflowers; you must allow yourself to grow in all the places people thought you never would"
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Like wild flowers you must allow yourself to grow in all the places people thought you never would.
New favorite quote
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a life that causes my soul to dance
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Causes my soul to dance inside my body... :: lettering by Ali Edwards
dance soul, dance!
Life Lessons 101: dance! Inside and out.
I can't pin this enough. Sucks to think you are always there for certain people..then when you need someone to be there for you..their not there. But your a mean person when you do the same back to them. Damned if you do..damned if you don't
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Givers need to set limits because takers rarely do. Great inspirational quote!
Givers and Takers in Relationships- " I began this series with an introduction of the nature and prevalence of partners in relationships being characterized as givers and takers. Now let me spell out in greater detail the phenomenon of being a Taker in a relationship. The words giver and taker already have some moral weight to them. Most have a sense that it's good to give, and bad to take. We have a build-in reluctance to take the last cookie on the plate, at least without the permission of the hostess or others in the vicinity. Most of us were trained as a child not to take another child's toy. We are (hopefully) taught to curb that 4-year-old ego “I want what I want when I want it - right now!” In the same vein, most of us were trained in the religious virtue of being a “cheerful giver.” (St. Paul, II Corinthians 9:7) So how is it that, with all this cultural emphasis toward “giving” there are so many “takers” out there? Many clients come with a feeling of betrayal that they have done so much “giving” and when they need something, there is nobody to “give” back. Those to whom they have given so much, just take more - and little or nothing comes back. Perhaps it's primary genetic wiring. Perhaps it's early life experience. Perhaps it's parenting. I've seen all three. But there is a street savvy wisdom that emerges, claiming that the only way you're going to get what you want is to “just take it”. And takers can be very attractive people. Some even taking on a folk hero status - perhaps from a hidden resentment that the rest of us can't “do that too.” In our audience sports, we cheer for the one who can get out there and take best. Taking is winning. It's true in the economic world as well - those who can get the most are those who get rewarded the most. In business seminars they are heros for our emulation. Our rock stars know well the persona of the taker is the key to fame and fortune - just ask their managers. In the world of sales, it's the narcissist, the one who thinks solely in terms of his own ego needs, who has the “inner balls” to be the most aggressive and successful salesperson. Paradoxically, they're also the best in posturing as givers. Sometimes it takes a pretty good “BS detector” to tell the difference. I see it most in the subtle emptiness of their relationship abilities. A sad psychological maxim is that takers insist on seeing themselves as givers - and they will be the first to tell you so, and the very last to see themselves as otherwise. In my thirty years of practice, I'd say this has been true about 80% of the time. The process of change for these folks to become less narcissistic, especially for the sake of their domestic relationships, is a lengthy difficult process at best, and counts for almost every grey hair I have (or have lost). The psychological profile of the taker includes a psychological bind that prevents him or her from seeing themselves accurately here. That's why there's always an aura of unreality and/or emptiness surrounding these people. The shell of excitement and success by which they cover and protect this inner sadness is what others “fall in love” with - as many of my clients sadly have come to realize. The sense of betrayal we come to feel when we've been “taken” is often analogous to the inner sense of betrayal the taker carries deep in his or her psyche, but is forbidden by an ancient bind from ever acknowledging. That's why takers characteristically have difficulty with any experience of anxiety (and again, cannot let themselves know this). Warning Signs Here are a few clues - ‘before the wedding', so to speak - that your partner may be a taker. I'll assume here that the taker is a male and the attracted party is a female - though the opposite is frequently the case as well. - When dining out, how does he treat waitresses (or waiters)? And how well does he tip? How he treats service personnel is a pretty accurate barometer how he will eventually be treating you. - In general, how does he treat those of lower social standing? Also, how does he act in the presence of those of higher social standing? - Is he hungry for praise - and grumpy when he doesn't get ‘enough'? - Does he take more than he really needs, when opportunity provides it? - Is there an air of entitlement - that he deserves what he has or wants? - Does he get upset when honestly challenged or criticized? (Be careful here, because the taker can be skilled in transferring or projecting his or her own anger onto the partner, then blaming the partner for being the angry one.) - Here's a specific ‘test': Accuse your partner that he/she lacks empathy. Takers generally lack the capacity for empathy - but don't know it's missing. So they develop a pseudo empathy, and when challenged as I suggest, get very anxious, defensive and angry. The primary key to recognizing a taker is to know yourself well enough that you are not blinded by their skill. The inscription, “Know Thyself,” from the ancient forecourt of the Temple of Apollo at Delphi, still carries its wisdom. I count it as a primary purpose of good psychotherapy to pursue this vital self-knowledge. And in many cases, it entails a difficult struggle".
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So True! Givers need to set limits because takers rarely do. #Givers #Takers #Quotes #Words #Sayings #Advice
don't give up
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Don't give up on your dreams. It's so true
#Truth about #life. So don't give up on your #dreams !
Don't give up on your dreams!! Wake up and Live them!!
Meaningful Thoughts: kinda harsh but it's reality. believe in yourself, work hard and don't give up. you've got no one to blame if you choose not to pursue your dreams.
Don't give up and go after what you want #inspirational #quotes #dreams
Immortal Beloved ever thine ever mine ever ours
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Beethoven's famous love letter Immortal Beloved <3 ever thine ever mine ever ours <3
Beethoven's love letter Immortal Beloved
Ludwig Van Beethoven to his Immortal Beloved --- I have always loved this. So beautiful.
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Never thought of this before...Heart are wild creatures. That's why our ribs are cages. #quotes #words
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hearts are wild creatures!! #life #quotes
Hearts are wild creatures, that's why our ribs are cages... And sometimes you can let out your heart and many things will make the heart hurt or grow fonder xx
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Never looked at it this way! This is so true. Hearts are wild creatures, and our ribs are cages. Gah! I like that guy too much.
crazy thought. Rib cages
Wild hearts, rib cages.
Every flower must grow through dirt. Yes, even the prettiest things had to go through the ugly things first.