7 Cardinal rules in life. 1. Make peace with your past so it won't disturb your present. 2. What other people think of you is none of your business. 3. Time heals almost everything, Give it time 4. Don't compare your life to others and don't judge them, you have no idea what their journey is all about. 5. Stop thinking too much. Its alright not to know the answers. They will come to you when you least expect it 6. No one is in charge of your happiness Except you 7. Smile.
Do not tolerate being vilified. Distance yourself from those who seek to take underhanded jabs at you while maintaining their innocence. Such behavior barks of immaturity and a complete disregard for the feelings of others.