And I instantly think of an epic Thorin quote (which wasn't in the book) "If this is to end in fire than we'll all roast marshmellows!" Oops, that's the internet version... well if you're a Hoobit fan you'll know what I'm talking about... ;)
Life is not fair.... but Jesus is so let Him make all of your decisions. Most things we suffer in life sometimes we bring on ourselves as a result of bad choices. Put God first and choose the right thing. You will suffer less in life.