Don't look past what's right in front of you. If you focus so hard on your "problems," you may miss something great, and trust me...you'll look back with regret later, when that opportunity is gone. Later isn't so far down the road, either.
Exactly. Life isn't a competition to be better or of more importance and relationships without empathy, compassion, or understanding in the worst times don't work....(It's called CARING - and considering others above oneself)