Exactly. Just be yourself! If you don't like who you are or you're ashamed of how you treat people, work on it! Do small, simple, nice gestures for people. Don't make a show of it so you can look good. Kindness isn't for the benefit of you, it's for them. And then maybe you can get something back from it- like respect.
agreed. this hurts me so much when a certain friend is mean to a waitress and impatient...I feel my friend is selfish...I love my friend, But how often I wanted to yell at her right there and then! maybe the waitress has sore feet or something or maybe its a cooks fault something went wrong..whatever! be nice! we are all equal no ones beneath another person! (yes I was a waitress)
Very true. I seem to have some misunderstandings in my life and I really tired of people not talking it out, to try to work it out like adults, they are just done with you. They focus on their side, write you off and ignore you with out even trying to see what they could have done. Tired of always being the one to try to do so. Silly to have distance because of a misunderstanding never bothering to work it out. Guess those people weren't meant to be.