"No one lights a candle and puts it under a basket but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before people, so that they can see your good deeds and give honor to your Father in heaven." - Matthew
And I find that the real ones, are more your family than actual people outside your family. Yes, you will have a few people that aren't in your family that are important. But at the end of the day, blood sticks closer than anything to you!