I'm definitely not against giving your children everything you didn't have, but I agree with this. Children who should want for nothing tend to find things they believe were missing from their lives, and those things are often not in their best interest.
You may not feel much love from all those in your life Jacob but I'm glad you tell me you know I do and your happy I make it a point to show you. I know how much it hurts to have a parent or step parent act like you don't exist just because they think they are perfect and you should be the one making them feel loved when no it's our job to make you feel our love. I love you very much.