This is something that I have struggled with so much, but the words bring truth. The book of Job is included in the bible for the sake of getting the point across that we are not to ask why, but who. Who do we think we are to ask why. We are not on God's level and should never expect an answer. The one thing that we do need to know is that God is in control.
For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blamelessin his sight. In love he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will. - Ephesians 1:4-5
yeah, last year my friend Marie, (6th grade) NEVER spoke seriously i heard her speak like 12 times the whole year! now this year (7th) she speaks at least once or twice at lunch! maybe next year (8th) she'll be talking more! (no one can talk more than me!)